Yes,cheating in marriages is always found among men. it is believed that it is normal for men to cheat and flirt with different women. But it is surprising as some married women have aired shocking reasons why they cheat on their partner.
They opened up to a relationship counselor on Facebook, David Papa Bomdze-Mbri about what prompted them to cheat on their hubby.
This are 25 women views on reasons for cheating :
1. WOMEN ARE AS BAD AS MEN IN CHEATING. I CHEATED ON MY HUBBY BECAUSE I NO LONGER LOVE HIM
“My mother raised me and my sisters as LADIES. She did her very best to train us up well. I know a lot more women were brought up well too, however, women are just as bad as men in this cheating game, except – women get away with it more because we are more emotional, charismatic, and play victim more. In all though, men and women are the same. You can’t give a guy any less respect in this aspect than a woman. I am cheating on my husband because I am no longer in love with him. I used to love him, but the love died, someway, somehow, along the journey. We’ve been married for 12 years, and I’ve been seeing this other man (who just happens to be the true love of my life) for Nine (9) years now. We are both married with kids.”
2. I AM ADDICTED TO FINE, STRONG MEN. I LUST AFTER THEM
“I am addicted to fine, strong, men. If I see a man and he is fine, and looks strong, I begin to lust after him. I am blessed with a good paying job, so I very often pay less attention to that individual’s financial status. My educational background and working experiences have opened more opportunities to me, created more hunger to want and have everything, and has also made me less fearful, less careful. You just have to look fine and strong, and I will figure out a way to employ you for something worth paying for – for a brief moment. My husband travels a lot to do businesses, so I am always all by myself. We’ve been married for Seven (7) years.”