Are you into her, but just not getting the feedback you’d expect? Dating Expert Brooke Lewis schools us on how to handle “hard to get.”
As a single woman and Dating Expert, you will often hear me quote, “Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” And, as much as men and women hate to admit it, there is always a game in the game of love.
I know, because I have played many and have prided myself on being “hard to get.” I also know because some of my games have worked and others have shamefully backfired.
So, Guys, take a few expert advice tips from a Lady who has been there:
1. Make sure she’s genuinely playing hard to get and not super busy.
I know, we all hate the busy word. And, yes, we can choose to perceive it as an excuse; but I can tell you firsthand, I have been accused of playing hard to get or intentionally not being available when, in fact, I have been working 15-hour days. If I am speaking at an event or filming on set for 12 hours straight, I am not playing hard to get, but may not even have my phone to call or text you back, and I certainly don’t have time to see you for dinner that night.